by Dr. Blanche Podhajski
I did not blog last month because December was a blur. I was away
with family for the holidays and, like everyone, my thoughts were
preoccupied with the tragic events in Sandy Hook. Our hearts go out to
the families and survivors whose memories are forever changed. Those of
us who work in schools and clinics know what little six and seven year
old children are like in December. Their exuberance and joy are
palpable. Their loss deprives us all. May we honor their memory by
being inspired to help all children as did the courageous teachers of
Sandy Hook. Educators deserve such admiration and respect for the
responsibilities they assume every day to advance the knowledge,
preserve the safety, and sustain the self-esteem of our young.
One of the gifts I received for Christmas was Far from the Tree: Parents, Children and the Search for Identity
by Andrew Solomon. It is a 700 page tome but written with such
sensitivity and beautiful language that you don’t realize how much you
have read. You can bop around the book and read the chapters of high
interest first but may be surprised by those you didn’t expect to relate
to and do. The stories shared are particularly compelling. What
resonated for me was the responsibility all of us have when using
language.
